Friends and Lovers

It is stressful sometimes because I push away good guys that I would like to be close friends with because I don't want to hurt them. I can't tell if they are okay with friendship or would only be happy with something more. There is probably one one guy that I only have a romantic interest in that otherwise I would not care to be his friend. Other than that, I wish I could be friends with all the men in my life. Was When Harry Met Sally right when Billy Crystal said that men and women can't be friends? Argh.