Why do all the pretty girls live so far away?
Great ad! And, you look absolutely amazing in your picture, too!
Well Pam, Your ad has to be one of the best I've read since I joined this site. I think your personality really comes out when you read it. It made me upgrade my membership just to tell you. hehe. The guy that finds his way to your heart will be very lucky. stay well :)
You are stunning! I am a little past your age range but wanted to say hello :-)
just in case no one told you yesterday, you're totally hot... have a great day
You are definitely a beautiful woman:)
Great smile, it actually made me feel better today.
i cant believe u havent found a great guy yet ! i see y all the time and it just doesnt make sense to me ! r there no good guys around where u live or what LOL? oh wel i guess im still here to so whatever will be will be !
Good morning nerd babe. What's going on?
Here is what I wrote:
I recently moved from Florida to North Carolina, so I am not actively seeking the love of my life as I settle into my new home. However, I know he is out there, and if he finds me, I am waiting. Now you may ask, how will I know when I find him . . . ?
It will be easy for him to make me smile and to bring out my silly side. He will know when to tell me to take a deep breath and to relax. He will think that my little quirks are adorable; he would get who I am and see beauty in my vulnerabilities. He will know when to point out when I am overreacting or when he should just hold me and stroke my hair. He will get my esoteric jokes, and hear my voice over a crowd. He would be protective of me but treat me like an equal. He wouldn't be intimidated by my intellect, appearance, or success; instead he would be proud and supportive. He would know what he wants and how he feels along with being able to communicate those needs and feelings to me. He would be stubborn enough to get mad at me and let me know it, but also let me know he still loves me and we will eventually work things out. He wouldn't necessarily be a romantic at heart, but he would love me enough that he would naturally do things to make me feel special. He wouldn't really need me, but he would want me so much that he wouldn't truly be happy without me.
Physically, he would be a sinewy 5'11'' or taller. He would make me feel small but always safe when I am around him. More than likely, he will be Anglo-Saxon with a full head of hair, a great smile, and well-groomed features. He would be masculine and rough around the edges but sophisticated when the occasion warranted. He would be older than me but young enough to bring home to the family for the holidays.
We would both understand that our relationship was monogamous and that faithfulness encompassed body, mind, and soul. Our love life would be very passionate but pure at the same time. In that sense, we wouldn't need anything but each other. I wouldn't get as much satisfaction from anything as I would by emotionally and physically satiating him.
We would both love the outdoors and have other interests in common; however, we would also have different interests, some which we could share and others which we could enjoy on our own. Even if he isn't Christian, he would go to church with me to show that he respected my beliefs and would support raising our children in the church. And I might even go to a sporting event or two! We would laugh at our differences and the inherent differences between men and women. We would be able to compromise without having to be forced to change; being together would make us both more the person we wanted to be. We would know how to not take ourselves so seriously so that if we make mistakes, we know it isn't the end of the world. We would be good for each other and learn from each other. I am open to a long distance relationship as long as we can close the gap within about a year of the time we start dating.
I would respect his integrity, compassion, maturity, humility, and intelligence. I would trust him with things that I would otherwise only trust myself. I wouldn't be afraid to tell him anything I was thinking or feeling for fear that he would judge me or use it to hurt me. I would enjoy spending time with him instead of getting annoyed with his flaws. In fact, I would even love him for his flaws. He would be the one I wanted to be my husband and the father of my children.
If you think you could fit the description above . . . hi, my name is Pam. :-)
And here is my picture:
So, do you think I have a chance in finding someone that actually catches my interests?
6 comments:
Too bad I am 5'10 and asian :P
You had this before...you weren't happy with the package it came in.
Anonymous . . . Hmmm. Who is that? I am guessing Jay. Interesting. I didn't know you had the link to my home page!
Pei, you never liked me. And isn't that against the rules . . . dating your cousin's ex-girlfriend?
Dave, well don't all friends and lovers start out as strangers? Funny. You aren't fat, silly.
Who said I never liked you? That hurts you know. Out of all the people from high school you are the only one I still talk to, and if you think that you mean nothing to me then I am going to have to protest.
While it's true that we can never be more than just friends, you are still a rather special person to me. Ignoring the fact that I only check up on you once in a blue moon.
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