Monday, August 01, 2005

Pedro!

Well I was going to blog this, but hey I am a private and scared of the Internet. Blog it if you want.

Waterfalls...NOW..go go go!

I think at times you tend to be conditional (tit-4-tat), or overly logical sometimes taking things a bit personal. People are who they are. They accept or reject you at will. Don't take it too heart (something I struggle with everyday). You can't change someone. You can't mold someone. If you feel that you do, or find yourself in the process, it is probably time to move on. Surround yourself with positive people. Love yourself. Spending a little time with god never hurts :) God never presents a challenge you are unable to handle. Pray and most of all be patient (heh something I dearly need). I, like you, try to plan life, set milestones, deadlines.
Live life within a large project cycle. What I have learned from Jamie is the other part of life that is important. Simple. In the moment. Squeezing the joy from the most minuscule things. For me as I am sure with you, we are extremely critical on ourselves. We have at times issues with focusing on the positive aspects of ourselves (constantly for me) and you have many (kind, supportive, love to help others, intelligent, focused, driven) and tend to linger on our shortcomings, things we need to improve, things we have not started or things that we have not completed. Focus on the things you have done.
This is where your friends come in, your true friends. Not just the ones that are "nice'n'quaint" but the ones that can be positive as well as telling you that you are a dumb ass and hug you after. BTW, you are not a dumb ass, but I will send you a hug.

We love you.

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Pedro De Jesus

2 comments:

Muhammed Saboor said...

Nicely put Pedro!

Anonymous said...

2 days without a post Pamela - you're slacking! :) Inquiring minds what to know what you've been up to... ;)