Monday, July 17, 2006

Object of Affection

I have always thought that what mattered was the object of the affection, not the source. However, I have come to realize that, if not completely at least for the most part, loving well depends on the lover.

We are all worthy of being loved. If someone doesn't love us enough, it is probably because of their inability to love instead of the lack of lovable qualities in us. There have times whereI have thought "if I could just be better, I know he would love me." Thinking like that can drive one mental. (Stealing vernacular from Mr. Miller, thank you.)

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